CFNM: Personal Choice or Social Obligation?

A recent comment from a blog's reader have sparked an interesting debate.

"One day, I went to a beach in southern Spain with my girlfriend. I usually wear swim trunks and she goes topless. 

But that day we discovered that all the men were completely naked, while all the women wore modest bikinis. We thought it was strange, but we didn't think much of it, and I kept in my swim trunks while she went topless, as usual. Suddenly, we both started feeling angry stares. 

The men looked at me with annoyance, and it was the women who glared angrily at my girlfriend. So my girlfriend and I talked about it, and while I decided to take off my swim trunks, she put on her bikini top. From that moment on, no one looked at us angrily. 

We didn't like having to change our behavior on the beach, but we had no choice but to accept it. I was embarrassed and aroused all day and didn't dare get up from my towel, lying face down with a massive erection. My girlfriend, on the other hand, swam as many times as she wanted. I didn't think that was fair.

I had never been in my birthsuit on a public beach before and It was humiliating to have to undress and stand totally naked in front of clothed women who stared at me so blatantly. 

Frankly, I admit that I not only felt humiliated when I took off my swimsuit, but also a strange excitement, seeing so many clothed women watching me do it and staring my genitals and ass, and I being unable to do anything to stop it."

Several replies have been given to this comment and even more have written to me on this topic.

The prevailing response was:

In many beaches, CFNM is very common, almost the norm, 

and, even if CFNM isn't mandatory, it is often a social obligation.

So, probably in that beach, CFNM was the social habit and you didnt' match the local social standard.

Yuor reaction is normal, excitment and a little humiliation is common in CFNM situation, enjoy it!

 

I'D LIKE TO HEAR READERS' OPINIONS. 

DO YOU THINK CFNM HAS BECOME ALMOST SOCIALLY MANDATORY IN SOME SITUATIONS, SUCH AS BEACHES, EVENTS LIKE WNBR, FESTIVALS, ETC.?

HOW WOULD YOU BEHAVE?

 

 

 

 

CYCLO NUDISTA IN BRUSSELS, 2026 June 20

From London to Brussels WNBR goes on and CFNM is the norm. 

Many naked men for the visual pleasure of dressed women

and the exhibitionist fun of men. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

WORLD NAKED BIKE RIDE IN LONDON 2026

An Asian lady happy to pose with many naked men, 

enjoying a large selection of cocks of different shapes and sizes,

what she can't have in her country!

WORLD NAKED BIKE RIDE IN LONDON 2026

 

Sunday June 14th

He's happy to show for the first time what his skin color usually reveals is hidden. 

But what about his partner?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

WORLD NAKED BIKE RIDE IN LONDON 2026

 

Sunday June 14th

The two black girls are among many boys completely naked, 

but the first girl is mainly observing  the difference between 

Asian and Western is not the skin color ...

 

 

 

PARTY NO PANTS (FOR MEN)

Are the two girls friends, or is one of them his girlfriend?  

If so, who is?

- the girl on the left, smiling and happy for him to show off his jewelry to everyone, or 

- the one on the right, who seems embarrassed by the situation?

 

A fashion advertising photo

naked and embarrassed boys to make girls' clothes stand out

 

WORLD NAKED BIKE RIDE IN LONDON 2026

 

Sunday June 14th

Whether they are in the audience or participating in the cycling, women are dressed while men are naked. 

WNBR in London is one of the greatest CFNM event in the world 

 

 

 

 

WORLD NAKED BIKE RIDE IN LONDON 2026

SUNDAY June 14th

once more London is the capital of the greatest CFNM event in the world.

 

Here the first photos from the ride, 

 

with women watching, photographing and posing with naked men 

 

HIKING IN THE WOODS

 

Art Performance goes cfnm

He undressed to nudity in front of a majority female audience

Gustavo Solar is a performer and visual artist born in Santiago, Chile, and active in South America. Known for exploring themes of identity, transience, and mysticism, his work focuses on vulnerable corporeality and the subversion of symbolic "figures" through pure movement and the absence of words.

The naked male body of the actor in fornt of and audience with women staring at his nudity makes the performance more teasing ...

  

WEDDING PHOTOSHOOT GOES CFNM

Cfnm is spreading more and more also in the photos of the newlyweds. 

In wedding album there are often poses with naked only the groom.

That's not fantasy, that's real life for this couple.

This is a Chinese couple of newlyweds taking wedding dresses at the Erhai Beach in Dali.

The groom first took off his suit, remaining in his underwear, then he took them off too, remaining completely naked for the photographer. 

The bride in her white dress laughs very amusedly, it's a shame that in the photos you can't see all of the groom

In this case not a boudoir style, but outdoor in the sun ...

Moreover in a public location, a lake pier, maube with stranger people looking at ...

That's the best scenery in my opinion ... what do you think?

 

A relaxing walk in the campsite 

 

 

a very daring cfnm fun - 3

Now he's completely in their hands, and the girls want to take their fun even further, with even more humiliating treatment for him... They make him sit with one of them, who lifts his legs with her asshole exposed. He tries to hide it for the photo, but the girls respond by shoving a wedge in his ass, while he stands there gasping for air. Now the photo is perfect, and the humiliation is at its peak.