CFNM: Personal Choice or Social Obligation?

A recent comment from a blog's reader have sparked an interesting debate.

"One day, I went to a beach in southern Spain with my girlfriend. I usually wear swim trunks and she goes topless. 

But that day we discovered that all the men were completely naked, while all the women wore modest bikinis. We thought it was strange, but we didn't think much of it, and I kept in my swim trunks while she went topless, as usual. Suddenly, we both started feeling angry stares. 

The men looked at me with annoyance, and it was the women who glared angrily at my girlfriend. So my girlfriend and I talked about it, and while I decided to take off my swim trunks, she put on her bikini top. From that moment on, no one looked at us angrily. 

We didn't like having to change our behavior on the beach, but we had no choice but to accept it. I was embarrassed and aroused all day and didn't dare get up from my towel, lying face down with a massive erection. My girlfriend, on the other hand, swam as many times as she wanted. I didn't think that was fair.

I had never been in my birthsuit on a public beach before and It was humiliating to have to undress and stand totally naked in front of clothed women who stared at me so blatantly. 

Frankly, I admit that I not only felt humiliated when I took off my swimsuit, but also a strange excitement, seeing so many clothed women watching me do it and staring my genitals and ass, and I being unable to do anything to stop it."

Several replies have been given to this comment and even more have written to me on this topic.

The prevailing response was:

In many beaches, CFNM is very common, almost the norm, 

and, even if CFNM isn't mandatory, it is often a social obligation.

So, probably in that beach, CFNM was the social habit and you didnt' match the local social standard.

Yuor reaction is normal, excitment and a little humiliation is common in CFNM situation, enjoy it!

 

I'D LIKE TO HEAR READERS' OPINIONS. 

DO YOU THINK CFNM HAS BECOME ALMOST SOCIALLY MANDATORY IN SOME SITUATIONS, SUCH AS BEACHES, EVENTS LIKE WNBR, FESTIVALS, ETC.?

HOW WOULD YOU BEHAVE?